Domestic Violence…When saying sorry is not enough.

 

 

Domestic Violence Counselling Course

We provide a comprehensive approach which is readily tailor made for any situation. It will likely be between 6 and 12 sessions, depending on the criteria of your particular circumstance. During the intake process, the extend of the program will be determined together with your therapist.

Written reports are available where the judicial system is involved. Our Director is recognized in the courts of Manitoba as an expert witness. All reports will be co-written and co-signed by him, and if court appearance is required he will likely be the one to attend.

Contact us by email or phone 204-334-4801.

 

 

The Program...

Men and women who use violence in their relationships tend to fall into one of two patterns of behaviour:
pre-contemplative and contemplative.
  • The Pre-C pattern of behaviour reflects an attempt to avoid taking responsibility for violent actions through justification, denial, minimization, etc. and convincing others to excuse them for it.
  • The C pattern of behaviour may include an acknowledgement of remorse for what has happened, a feeling of powerlessness to control violent/abusive behaviour, and an inability/ignorance on how to repair the effects of such actions.
 
 
 
 
 

The Program...

The common ground between both patterns of behaviour is that both are expressions of shame. There is good shame and bad shame. The Pre-C and C pattern is an expression of bad shame and as long as this destructive emotion is present the risk to re-offend remains high.

Good shame is rooted in the foundational belief that most men and women who have used violence in intimate relationships actually prefer respect over disrespect, love over control/violence, etc.

From this perspective, the presence and intensity of shame can be seen to indicate how the offending party has violated their values about how to act in an intimate relationship. This is the process of transforming shame to empathy and violence to respectful ways of being.

 
   
RIVERBEND COUNSELLING Inc.
Phone: 204-334-4801 Fax: 204-338-9180 Email: contact@riverbendcounselling.ca
9 - 1110 Henderson Hwy Winnipeg, MB. R2G 1L1

www.riverbendcounselling.ca 
 
     
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